BABY JOHN WAYNE
Paul and Kylie always knew they wanted to have children. They’d talked about adoption while they were dating and decided to start trying to have kids on a basketball trip to Coeur d’Alene, Idaho.
While spending a year trying to have kids of their own, they felt led by God to become foster parents.
They went through all of the training, and then right before doing the final step they got pregnant with Annie Grace, who they called Baby John Wayne because their dads’ names are John and Wayne, and decided to put foster care on hold.
Two months later, Paul, then a teacher and basketball coach at Capital High in Boise, was hired as an assistant basketball coach at NNU.
Then disaster struck.
After the death of their daughter, Kylie’s grandfather died and shortly after that a brother-in-law passed away.
“It wasn’t the best year of our life,” Kylie said.
Paul remembers being on a week-long road trip to California and being overcome by grief in a hotel bathroom.
“Part of it was because I wasn’t home to support her and be with her after losing the baby and losing her grandpa,” Paul said. “I can remember being on my knees on the bathroom floor of our hotel and having a conversation with God and a scripture from Job coming to mind, ‘Though he slay me, yet will I hope in him.’