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Beyond the Swipe: Honoring God, Respecting Yourself, and Finding the Right Match Paperback – April 24, 2018

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There's no doubt that the Internet has changed modern life. In the blink of an eye, we can look up obscure information, order groceries, or connect with old friends. With the advent of dating apps, even true love is at our fingertips--or so we're told. But how can single Christians find their way from that first swipe right of interest on an app to long-lasting, God-honoring love?

Kristin Fry has her share of laugh-out-loud and cringe-worthy dating app stories, and she knows the fatigue that can come with digital dating. Despite the instant gratification that some dating apps advertise, true relationships are more than an interaction based on first impressions on a mobile device. In a warm, conversational style, Fry tackles a broad range of topics from evaluating profiles to first dates to maintaining healthy peer friendships even while dating. Kristin mines her own experience in the dating world but also includes insights from interviews with thirty married couples, and in-depth biblical study from Abraham and Sarah, the life of Jesus, the letter of Ephesians, and more.

This isn't just another how-to book for finding Mr. Right; this is a guide to help single Christian women navigate the new normal without forgetting their genuine identity in a God who loves them. By the end, digital daters will have the right tools for dating well--and know that God's best is possible.
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How can single Christians move from that first swipe right to long-lasting, God-honoring love?
In Beyond the Swipe, Fry uses humor and wisdom to help equip Christians to navigate this new normal

Book quote: If he doesn't bring out the best in you, he's not the best for you

Book quote: There can be freedom in saying no

Book quote: When you know your worth, you stop giving other people discounts

Jarrett Stevens, author of Four Small Words and pastor of Soul City Church, praises Beyond the Swipe

Chris and Molly Brown call this a "timely resource that will breathe much-needed hope" into people

Annie F. Downs, best-selling author of 100 Days to Brave and Looking for Lovely, praises this book

Kristin Fry's author biography

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"Dating is more complicated than ever. What Kristin offers in Beyond the Swipe is both helpful and hopeful. This is a spiritually practical book for not only dating well but honoring God in the midst of it all. It's full of wisdom, honesty, and vision for how to hold out for and hold on to God's best for you." -- Jarrett Stevens, author of Four Small Words and pastor of Soul City Church Published On: 2018-01-31

"I absolutely love Kristin's wit and wisdom in so many areas of life, particularly this topic. She models healthy relationships with others, God, and herself, and her voice is refreshing and encouraging." -- Annie F. Downs, best-selling author of
100 Days to Brave and Looking for Lovely Published On: 2017-01-31

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Beyond the Swipe is a must-read for not only those wanting to do dating right but also those of us who have young adults experiencing the dating world. Dating dynamics have certainly changed over the years, and this book has equipped us to help our children. We are so grateful for Kristin's candidness and her ability to delicately balance truth, love, and laughter in these pages. With stakes high and the odds against marriages in today's culture, Beyond the Swipe is a timely resource that will breathe much-needed hope, confidence, and knowledge into those seeking long-lasting, self-respecting, and passionate relationships. Thank you, Kristin, for this terrific resource!" -- Chris Brown, Ramsey Personality and nationally syndicated radio host Published On: 2017-01-31

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Beyond the Swipe by Kristin Fry is a helpful book for any of us traversing the tricky and ever-changing waters of dating. Kristin asks good questions, provides sound teaching, and gives us practical tips and tools for navigating our single years with purpose. I found the discussion questions at the end of each chapter challenging and natural to talk about within my group of friends. Read this book and let it be a time of self-reflection. God does not withhold good from us, whatever season of life we are in." -- Esther Fleece, speaker and author of No More Faking Fine Published On: 2018-01-31

"The desire to meet the right person has never changed, but the landscape of how we are finding them definitely has. In this age of smartphones and dating apps, Kristin has written the book on how to best navigate this ever-evolving scene. Kristin is both clever and insightful as she offers practical advice. I can't wait to recommend this book to the people around me in the dating world!" -- Rodney Anderson, singles director of Buckhead Church Published On: 2018-01-31

About the Author

Kristin Fry is a speaker, writer, and consultant with nearly twenty years of ministry experience with twenty-somethings. She lives in Atlanta, where she serves with North Point Ministries. This is her first book.

Product details

  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Kregel Publications (April 24, 2018)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 160 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0825445132
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0825445132
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 6.4 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.36 x 8.5 inches
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Kristin Fry (www.kristinfry.com) once filmed the pilot for a dating reality show and got 8 weeks in the process before the show broke up with her and all the other contestants. But she learned that trying to go on real dates with 5 cameras in her face is no joke! She's decided to stick to the more incognito approach in the future.

Kristin has never met a cup of coffee she hasn't liked and has an unfortunate (or fortunate, you decide) habit of laughing loud at all the wrong times.

Although she is a California native, she currently makes her home in Atlanta, GA and cannot imagine moving back West. The South has taught her so much about sweet tea, Chick-fil-A, and let's not forget –humidity.

Kristin has a soft spot for 20- and 30-somethings, hoping to be a voice that instills in them a confidence in who they've been created to be.

She is a contributing writer to several leadership online publications and has written leadership development resources for North Point Ministries, The reThink Group, and Church.org. She has been regularly hosting a singles environment reaching 2000 single men and women weekly at North Point Ministries for the past five years. She loves living an active lifestyle, including downhill skiing, Cross Fit, and the Half Ironman.

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Reviewed in the United States on April 30, 2018
Since I'm out of the dating scene, I purchased this book with the intent of gifting it to some young single gals that I know.
Although "Beyond the Swipe" seems to be targeted for the 18-40-year-old single females, after reading it, I found that this book can also be very helpful for all ages of single women, including those venturing back out into the dating world after a divorce or being widowed.
Kristin's writing style is fun and unique and I found this book to have very helpful and practical advice for all single women regardless of age.
This is a must-read with a refreshing and knowledgeable take on the dating dynamics of today, supplying the tools of confidence and empowerment. I wish a book like this had been available during my dating years.
I highly, highly recommend it.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 24, 2018
Kristin gives a lot of practical advice to women who are navigating the online dating scene or who are considering it, but are uncertain. Kristin gets that in our day and age online dating and dating apps are increasingly the norm. While she approaches the topic from a Biblical perspective, she doesn't bash it and in fact, encourages it! She gives advice for how to navigate the online scene in a way that is honoring to God and respectful of yourself. She doesn't simply give a list of dos and don'ts; every piece of advice she gives she's first learned for herself and put into practice. I found Kristin's writing fun and engaging and easy to read. I would highly recommend this book for any woman who is single or dating and wants to approach online dating differently.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 24, 2018
This book is amazing! Kristin does an incredible job of relating to the reader and giving actual advice on how to date as a Christian in today’s society. Not often do I audibly laugh while reading a book but I couldn’t help myself at times! Seriously, knowing the Kristin is working through dating using Apps as a Christian women as well is honestly what makes this book. If you are a single gal or know a single gal who is struggling to find that Prince Charming, BUY THIS BOOK!!
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Reviewed in the United States on April 26, 2018
There are books that you find at just the right time, when you most need them and are open to their message. Beyond the Swipe was one of those books for me. I could not recommend this book more!
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Reviewed in the United States on May 3, 2018
Kristin is a great communicator who is living out the truths in this book. It is an easy read and immediately applicable. She has great wisdom for navigating a new way singles are meeting and dating.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 24, 2018
After reading the book I feel more empowered and confident to make decisions that will result in a lasting relationship that begins online. Online dating isn't as simple as just logging on and swiping - it takes strategy and confidence to know how to choose appropriate matches and treat all matches with the respect that you, yourself ultimately deserve. For a seasoned online dater like myself, some of this is common sense but overall I would highly recommend this book to both those who are new to online dating and those who are pros. I sincerely trust Kristin's advice and I am thankful for the knowldge this book has provided me.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 24, 2018
With this book, it felt as though every other page I was saying to myself, "Ugh, seriously" or "Sameeee!" Dating online or through apps is a concept that almost everyone partakes in but NO ONE talks about, and if you meet someone great through them you feel as though you need to make up a cover story. Kristin is candid and relatable with her experiences, pros/cons and truth bombs! This book gave me such a confidence boost and relatable tips, to use whatever form of dating I wanted to, in a way that was best for me!
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Reviewed in the United States on April 24, 2018
This book is a funny, insightful and honest approach to dating in today’s digital driven world. I appreciate the fact that it is written by a single person who is currently navigating the dating world and not a married person who might have been out of the current dating dynamic for some time. Kristen gives relevant, practical dating advice as well as some poignant reminders that you are worth more than just your dating profile. I highly recommend this read to anyone who is single!
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