Domestic Violence is More Common Than You Think
We’ve come a long way since the first Domestic Violence Awareness Month was observed in October 1987. People experiencing abuse by an intimate partner now have more legal protections and many ways to get help. Despite this progress, however, millions of people are still suffering in silence.
We all have a part to play in stopping domestic violence. Here’s what you need to know about relationship abuse, its impacts and how to get help for yourself or someone else.
Probably Know Someone Who is Suffering
Domestic violence is extremely common. About 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men say they have experienced violence from an intimate partner in their lifetime, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
Signs to Watch For
It’s vital to understand when abuse is happening. Domestic violence can cause physical injuries and even death. It can also cause long-term physical health problems as well as post-traumatic stress disorder, depression and other lasting mental health issues.
Some red flags can include:
- Insulting, shaming or demeaning a partner
- Showing extreme jealousy or trying to stop someone from spending time with others
- Controlling a partner’s finances, behavior or decision
- Pressuring someone to have sex or use drugs or alcohol
- Intimidating a partner with threatening looks, actions or weapons
- Threatening to harm or take away possessions, children or pets
- Destroying a partner’s property
- Monitoring a partner’s every move, either in person or online
Take Action Today
Everyone deserves to feel safe and have healthy relationships. It’s never too late to speak up, get help, and start healing. Whether it’s for yourself or someone you know, take action to stop domestic violence. It could save a life.
National Domestic Violence Hotline (www.thehotline.org): Call 1-800-799-7233 or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
- Operates 24/7 in 170 languages
- Connects you to local programs that can help
