It's Summer, Say YES!
It's Summer, Say YES!
July 15, 2016 - Volume 3 Issue 7
Real Life Spark
...igniting the next generation of YOU!
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Deb's Sparks
I can't believe July is more than half over - summer is moving at warp speed!  Let's make the most of summer opportunities by saying YES!  This month's Igniting the Next Generation of YOU! column is all about saying YES!
Our tool this month is Intuition and is the story of using my intuition to evaluate one of my mother's health issues. It's a good one!
I love my new home and all the new friends and opportunities that are on my path. My new work space is magical!
I'll keep this brief as I have more summer to enjoy!
Wishing you peace, love and sparks of inspiration!  Deb
Igniting the Next Generation of YOU!  SAY YES!
When an opportunity shows up, is your first response YES or NO?  Take a minute and think about it.  When is the last time you said YES?
In our crazy, action-packed lives, we are quick to say NO because we are too busy, too tired or too broke.  It's easy to say no and sometimes its the right answer because it's not the right time, or right opportunity for you.  Let's make sure its not your only answer and have a little fun along the way...with a lesson/exercise from Improv!
The first rule of Improvisation is to agree with your partner's statement.  And not only agree with it but build upon it.  This translates into a response of "Yes, and..." and is referred to as the Rule of Agreement.
I love this excerpt from Tina Fey's book Bossypants:
"Now, obviously in real life you’re not always going to agree with everything everyone says. But the Rule of Agreement reminds you to “respect what your partner has created” and to at least start from an open-minded place. Start with a YES and see where that takes you."
I love this!  We are so quick to say NO.  What if we approached opportunities with an open mind and said "Yes and..."
This picture captures the essense of an afternoon when I said Yes, and...  
I should have been finishing this newsletter but I walked outside and the weather was perfect.
My boyfriend suggested a ride on his motorcyle and my response was YES and let's have a picnic!  
So we quickly changed our afternoon plans to sit in a beautiful park on blanket with a picnic lunch and simply enjoy.  We didn't leave technology behind, so a little work was accomplished under the beautiful blue skies and white puffy clouds!  Perfect!
When I reflect on this year, I notice many good things have come my way by simply saying YES.  I said YES to an appointment with my realtor and ultimately found my new home.  I said YES to a bank contact and was able to secure a mortgage after every other bank had said NO.  I said YES to coffee with a new contact and made a new friend.  
My life has expanded by being more open-minded to new people, new things and new ideas.  It's fantastic!
What can you say YES to this month?
We will continue our discussion next month...xoxo Deb
Tools You Can Use! Intuition...
Your intuition is always available to help you solve problems and guide you to your next best step.  It's also available in times of emergency!  
In case you missed it, here's my recent blog post Intuition: Daughter's Emergency Response System.
Deb's Bookshelf
Our current book  is Your Divine Lens by Sue Frederick. Sue is my mentor and I'm looking forward to reading her latest book and sharing my insights with you.  Join me and read along!
Deb Wilber is an intuitive coach and personal transformation expert.  Her coaching practice, Real Life Spark™,  helps women  transform their lives from the inside out,  so they can live their best life now!
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