September 17, 2023
2 Samuel 13:10-13
10 Then Amnon said to Tamar, “Bring the food here into my bedroom so I may eat from your hand.” And Tamar took the bread she had prepared and brought it to her brother Amnon in his bedroom. 11 But when she took it to him to eat, he grabbed her and said, “Come to bed with me, my sister.”
12 “No, my brother!” she said to him. “Don’t force me! Such a thing should not be done in Israel! Don’t do this wicked thing. 13 What about me? Where could I get rid of my disgrace? And what about you? You would be like one of the wicked fools in Israel. Please speak to the king; he will not keep me from being married to you.”
New International Version (NIV)
Special Sunday Edition
Ethan Barton, Pastoral Resident, Tallowood Baptist Church
Reading the Bible is not for the faint of heart! This is one of its darkest stories. The verse following the above passage doesn’t beat around the bush; Amnon does the worst thing imaginable. It’s a despicable and grotesque deed.
The horror of this scene is not to be understated. Tamar is indeed his half-sister, and that alone makes it severely illegal by Israel’s law. She would be seen as a disgraced woman the rest of her life. Not to mention, this happened in the household of the king of Israel, between two of King David’s very children.
Paul tells us that all Scripture, meaning even this story, is God-breathed and useful for teaching. Specifically, every story demonstrates for us either how grievous sin is or how glorious our gracious savior is. This one does the former. When the world does not walk according to the Lord’s ways, life is solitary, poor, nasty, brutish, and short.
One thing this story reminds us of is that sin blinds us from reason. Tamar tried to talk Amnon out of it, and her reasons were good. But in his raging lust, he had already decided to take the horridly unwise council of his friend. Sin corrupts the mind! God’s Word calls us to make our decisions with reason and wisdom. But one effect of sin is that these faculties of ours have been polluted, and we find ourselves making irrational decisions and neglecting to think straight. It's almost impressive the hoops we jump through to justify our sin, but the logic is always, without fail, laughable.
Our ability to think wisely, in spite of unwise pressures, is a gift from God. It’s perhaps the primary thing that makes us like him. A sound mind has the wisdom to recognize sin and a will strong enough to run from it. Thinking wisely is worship. The alternative is catastrophic.
Pray with me:
Lord, we want to love you, our God, with all of our mind. Sanctify our minds; teach us your wisdom, which is the only true wisdom, so that we may know how to flee from sin and run to you. Teach us your wisdom, so that we may see how grievous sin truly is, and how much we need you our savior. In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.
Our 2023 Every Day with Jesus readings are taken from Robert Murray M'Cheyne's Bible Reading Calendar. Copies of the reading plan are available at Tallowood Baptist Church, or download your copy here:
Please join us in reading through the scriptures again this year.  We will read the New Testament twice and the Old Testament once this year. M'Cheyne once said, “A man is who he is on his knees, and nothing more.”  Would you pray with me that God will make his word live to us this year?  Let’s not just get through the Bible.  Let it get through to us!

Joyfully, 
Duane 

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