September 24, 2023
2 Samuel 20:18-22
18 She continued, “Long ago they used to say, ‘Get your answer at Abel,’ and that settled it. 19 We are the peaceful and faithful in Israel. You are trying to destroy a city that is a mother in Israel. Why do you want to swallow up the Lord’s inheritance?”
20 “Far be it from me!” Joab replied, “Far be it from me to swallow up or destroy! 21 That is not the case. A man named Sheba son of Bikri, from the hill country of Ephraim, has lifted up his hand against the king, against David. Hand over this one man, and I’ll withdraw from the city.”
The woman said to Joab, “His head will be thrown to you from the wall.”
22 Then the woman went to all the people with her wise advice, and they cut off the head of Sheba son of Bikri and threw it to Joab. So he sounded the trumpet, and his men dispersed from the city, each returning to his home. And Joab went back to the king in Jerusalem.
New International Version (NIV)
Special Sunday Edition
Ethan Barton, Pastoral Resident, Tallowood Baptist Church
It’s a shame that the church, for most of its history, has minimized the role of women in the Bible. Some women, like Deborah or Esther, have some of the coolest stories; others, like Hagar or Ruth, God shows extra kindness and care; and others, like Mary or some of Paul’s coworkers, have a role of honor we might not expect. And then there’s this unnamed “wise woman” from Abel!
Joab, King David’s mighty general, had besieged the town to capture and kill Sheba for his treasonous rebellion against the king. A grizzled soldier, Joab was in the process of barging the city gate down and was probably planning to kill anyone in his path. Lucky for everyone there, this woman—probably a respected counselor who advised all of Israel according to God’s will—put a stop to it. Joab had no idea that the city was full of wisdom and a stranger to war. We’re not told how she did it, but somehow, this woman convinced the city people to take care of the matter themselves and avoid further bloodshed.
The contrast between these two characters is striking. Joab is a man of brute force; the wise woman is called faithful and peaceful. He conquers enemies; she preserves what is good. In a kingdom and a world where men were consistently dominant, she’s a wonderful example of how the other (and probably smarter) half of mankind can have a much-needed positive impact. In his sovereignty and goodness, God created women with certain great and unique attributes that, candidly, are harder for us men. But there is a side of God’s glorious character that shines forth particularly in these female attributes. A lot of good had been accomplished for Israel through Joab’s military prowess, but this was an instance where womanly wisdom and care was needed instead.
When we fully appreciate the beauty and complexity of God’s creation, we worship. God’s design of women, like the counselor at Abel, is among his greatest accomplishments in creation. You don’t have to throw an enemy’s head over a wall to serve faithfully (as cool as that would be), but we should at least all recognize the unique opportunities for faithfulness that God designed each of us with. Praise God that he created us beautifully unique, and praise God for those opportunities!
Pray with me:
Father, we thank you for your glory that you reveal to us through men, and we thank you for your glory that you reveal to us through women. Teach us all to be peaceful and faithful and to serve you in whatever way you would ask of us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Our 2023 Every Day with Jesus readings are taken from Robert Murray M'Cheyne's Bible Reading Calendar. Copies of the reading plan are available at Tallowood Baptist Church, or download your copy here:
Please join us in reading through the scriptures again this year.  We will read the New Testament twice and the Old Testament once this year. M'Cheyne once said, “A man is who he is on his knees, and nothing more.”  Would you pray with me that God will make his word live to us this year?  Let’s not just get through the Bible.  Let it get through to us!

Joyfully, 
Duane 

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