Helping Children Cope with Changes Resulting from COVID-19
It is very important to remember that children look to adults for guidance on how to react to stressful events. Acknowledging some level of concern, without panicking, is appropriate and can result in taking the necessary actions that reduce the risk of illness. Teaching children positive preventive measures, talking with them about their fears, and giving them a sense of some control over their risk of infection can help reduce anxiety. This is also a tremendous opportunity for adults to model for children problem-solving, flexibility, and compassion as we all work through adjusting daily schedules, balancing work and other activities, getting creative about how we spend time, processing new information from authorities, and connecting and supporting friends and family members in new ways. The following tips can help.
1. STAY CALM, LISTEN, AND OFFER REASSURANCE
- Be a role model. Children will react to and follow your reactions. They learn from your example.
- Be aware of how you talk about COVID-19. Your discussion about COVID-19 can increase or decrease your child's fear.
- Explain social distancing. Children probably don’t fully understand why parents/guardians aren’t allowing them to be with friends.
- Demonstrate deep breathing. Deep breathing is a valuable tool for calming the nervous system. Do breathing exercises with your children.
- Focus on the positive. Celebrate having more time to spend as a family. Make it as fun as possible.
- Establish and maintain a daily routine. Keeping a regular schedule provides a sense of control, predictability, calm, and well-being.
- Identify projects that might help others. This could include: writing letters to the neighbors or others who might be stuck at home alone or to healthcare workers; sending positive messages over social media; or reading a favorite children’s book on a social media platform for younger children to hear.
- Offer lots of love and affection.
2. MONITOR TELEVISION VIEWING AND SOCIAL MEDIA
Watching too many news clips or reading too many articles on COVID-19 can stir up a lot of fear.
3. TAKE TIME TO TALK
Be available to listen to your children and encourage them to voice what they are feeling and thinking.
4. BE HONEST AND ACCURATE
There is a lot of false information out there. Protect your children from the unnecessary false facts but also provide them with explanations and correct information within reason.
5. KEEP EXPLANATIONS AGE-APPROPRIATE
Share information that is appropriate for their age and development.
6. STAY CONNECTED TO SCHOOL
Use technology to help your children stay connected to teachers and friends.
7. KNOW THE SYMPTOMS OF COVID-19
8. MODEL BASIC HYGIENE AND HEALTHY LIFESTYLE PRACTICES
Practice daily good hygiene and encourage your children to do the same.